The Dynamics of Life and Change
Often, people forget how complex and dynamic life is. For example, are you:
- Financially concerned?
- Expressing your needs?
- Finding your voice?
- Wanting a partner or spouse?
- Troubled making decisions?
- Wondering about your career direction?
- Understanding your life’s purpose?
- Being physically well and fit?
- Finding the resources you need?
Without becoming clear on the many life’s dynamics, you may find you are stuck and a black and white reality. Here’s an example of that.
There was a client of mine who was struggling with your fiancée. He appeared to be not very communicative and there were issues that communication was the only way to move forward.
When we examined her situation, we discover her codependency was high. It manifested in her often telling her fiancée what he needed to do. Unfortunately, he took it as being put down and then would shut down. In her mind it was black and white about what he was doing that was getting in his way.
After working with her, the result was she learned to avoid her codependency and they have been happily married for two years.
When you are open up to the many aspects of how life works, you will be able to make the changes you would like. You stop getting stuck and find your personal cycle of success. (More on that later.) This is something a few suggestions might open new awareness of your situation.
DM me with a YES and I’ll connect with you with give you some ideas.