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I Don’t Trust Him/Her/Them

September 6, 20240 Comments

Is It Trust, Judgment, or Discernment?

The quick answer is all the above.  The only time trust, judgment, or discernment becomes a problem is when they stop you from moving forward or cause you to disconnect from others too much.

Let’s focus on trust because it’s your judgment and discernment […]

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Do You Fight Yourself?

August 30, 20240 Comments

The Fight Within

What is meant by the “fight within”?  Simply put, the fight within is when your true self, the that is naturally calm, caring, compassionate, and cooperative you, meets your baggage.

This fight within can be so subtle you don’t even know you are fighting yourself. It can […]

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Are We Having Any Fun Yet?

August 23, 20240 Comments

The Seriousness Trap

Much is written about the importance of de-stressing, relaxing, and self-care. As a coach, I’ve discovered a lot of people get overly serious or get lost in solving childhood and young adult issues forgetting how important pleasure is. I was one of them.

My life didn’t start […]

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What’s Your Pain Point?

August 16, 20241 Comments

A pain point is something that is causing you troubles, most likely over and over. A pain point can range from very mild discomfort to unimaginable, unspeakable misery. Someone can have a pain point about their finances, career, relationships, family dynamics, spirituality, physical well-being, emotions, focus, reaching their goals, and […]

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Celebrating an 80th Birthday

April 13, 20230 Comments

How are you going to celebrate your 80th birthday?

How about joining me for mine?

This year I will be 80 years old. I plan to celebrate by doing 80 things I’ve never done before or for a very long time. Here is my list:

  1. Lift 100 lbs (I’ve […]
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The Dynamics of Life and Change

March 22, 20230 Comments

Often, people forget how complex and dynamic life is. For example, are you:

  • Financially concerned?
  • Expressing your needs?
  • Finding your voice?
  • Wanting a partner or spouse?
  • Troubled making decisions?
  • Wondering about your career direction?
  • Understanding your life’s purpose?
  • Being physically well and fit?
  • Finding the resources you need?
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Come Alive Tip – When is the best time to regroup after a setback?

March 8, 20230 Comments

Sounds simple, right? I know we all have heard the saying “if at first you don’t succeed, try, try again”. The same can be said about regrouping and refreshing what you are doing after a setback.

Was there a time in your life when it felt like, if you just […]

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The Importance Of Being Kind To Almost Everyone You Meet

November 9, 20220 Comments

Are you always kind? Or do you sometimes treat people insensitively or even poorly?

If your answer is yes, or you have had times you’ve felt uneasy about how you treated someone, then this is for you. There’s a lot to be said about being kind to others, it becomes […]

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How to Prioritize Your Life?

October 19, 20220 Comments

There are a lot of people who say that life is short, and that you should live each day to the fullest. It is true that we may not have as long to live on this planet as others; however, I think we can all agree that every moment is […]

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What’s Keeping You From Being Yourself?

October 12, 20220 Comments

Are you concerned about what others think of you? How much do you worry about what others think? Do you get into arguments about things that aren’t even related to your passion or career?
No one likes to be judged by others. It’s an uncomfortable feeling, right?

However, it’s […]

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